You’re 18 and yes officially an adult now 😊.
I know you’re so happy you’re out of School and you’re done with one of the most bothering subject “Mathematics “. Am glad you somehow did it. I know how hard it has been for you to cope up with. Now, you’re again at the most confusing phase of your life deciding about the college and your further studies which I see you’re not that keen on.
Dad’s constant pressure, Mom not so happy about what you want. Not many friends around you to even discuss .Elder sister already being married and busy with her own life, Younger one too young to understand .
However, I have always admired you for having your priorities kept straight regardless of the priorities being right or wrong. I know it isn’t that easy to take a decision on not studying further when the only thing expected out of you is to “Study”…
I’d say don’t lose heart ❤. This is just the beginning. Things will be even tougher, confusing in the coming days. As light heart-ed as you are things sometimes can bother you so bad. Its time you know that the world’s gonna be mean and so will be the people you come across, They’ll judge you, demotivate you, drag you down and know that Not everyone is going to Like You and you have to accept it. There are lot of things that you haven’t yet dealt with. So take it easy and take one thing at a time. Even though you’re not going to College I assure you your life in coming days will for sure sparkle.
After all the arguments with your parents you will decide to work and relocate to a different city. Coming from a small town, things won’t be as same as You think it would be. However ,you will love the new venture, new people, and new culture. Living in your own terms is what you always wanted. You’ll Come across a lot of people, and a best friend who would stand by you in your thick and thins. She won’t give up on you. She would love you at your worst.
As immature you could be you will consider everything is gonna last longer but hey there! Nothing is permanent and you should know it. You will get good people, bad and the ugly ones. Know who to choose.
Like anyone else you will fall in Love, You will go through series of Heart breaks, cry over some unworthy people, but also you will find some amazing people who will try and bring the best of you, Adore you, honor you, respect you beyond anything else in the world. Just know one thing “life is filled with Goodbyes “one harder than the other but know that all goodbyes are not forever. Who means to you will always find ways to be with you. Let go of the ones who wants to but don’t ever lose yourself.
Keep Loving, Keep inspiring and keep going….
Because You’re unbelievably Strong.