Embrace who you are…

It’s been a while now that I posted something, am sorry loves that I have not been able to keep up with you guys as often as I promised.

Nevertheless, what matters is am here with yet another story to share with you guys.

Well, for the ones who has been following my blog posts on insta and Facebook regularly –  would know that I’d taken this little Christmas 🎄 break last year. Breaks are always so good isn’t? Getting up without having to fear you need to get ready go to work or rather an alarm 🚨 waking you up Wow!!Those are the happiness at least to me.

Well having said that whenever I take these breaks to go back home 🏡. Courtesy my folks back home make sure I eat so much that I end up putting on weight which eventually goes away.


However things weren’t the same this time. I have always been Petite and am absolutely fine with it. I never had a fear of putting on much. High metabolism and stuff, I always had the liberty to eat what I loved, however, things do change.

I noticed those extras kilos and along with those fat came People’s comments – their advices as to what I should be doing, eating and blah 👅. Well, People sometimes can just take away your confidence.

I started getting a little low in confidence, I cancelled the photo shoots 📸 that came my way. I somehow stopped liking myself… Trust me am my own Favorite otherwise, but the feeling wasn’t the same. In other words I wasn’t accepting my own self, that’s Bad isn’t?

It was that phase of my life where I was like ” Is it only me who’s getting Uglier day by day?” 😂😂

The feeling is awful when you can’t fit in the clothes you loved the most. My heart ❤ ached every moment I looked at the mirror. The question was “Did I do something about it”? The answer is “No” instead I kept sulking and dreaming that one day a miracle will take place and I’ll wake up fit as I was before. Lame!!!Sometimes we promise ourselves much but we fail to keep up.

But the point came where I had to stop ✋ disliking myself. All my life all I knew was to love myself so yes I wasn’t doing a justice to myself for putting on a little extra…


I pulled myself up, started working out 🏋🏾, watched out my diet but most importantly I told myself no matter what I need to accept and embrace myself for who I am.

I was really reluctant in posting these pics because I didn’t feel it was one my best so far but I broke that part and here am doing this for you all who’s feeling the same way like I did few days ago.

No matter what people’s going to judge you, you just do you and stop being harsh on yourself embrace yourself with all the shortcomings life’s to offer you…


Until the next post, keep being Fierce and keep it Stylish….



Outfit Details:

👗: Ajio

👞: Street style store

💼: Ni Hoa Fashions




19 Comments Add yours

  1. Nice post. I see that I was thinking along the same lines as everyone else. Nice dress! True beauty is from within and is a reflection of one’s soul. As we age, I like to say that inner beauty has more opportunity to shine as our physical beauty wanes.😉

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    1. Thank you so much for stopping by . It really means a lot . Thank you so much 😊..
      And yes every word you said its true…. Beauty is what you have within.. xo

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  2. True beauty comes when transparency is present; you are being so transparent even in your pain. It is clear that you are a light and an encouragement to those around you. Once I was told that often, as humans, we think of ourselves as “broken finished products” instead of “beautiful, constantly changing works in progress”. So much freedom comes from knowing that we are all just unfinished art. Your post is wonderful, thank you for sharing.

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    1. Awww ! Megan am so touched by your kindness. Am sure you must be such a good soul. Yes least we can do is inspire people around.. xo girl

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  3. I love your tattoo, and your hair…and your dress lol. I know how it feels to be feeling down because of your weight. I just take it one day at a time and remind myself that it is a process, I didn’t gain weight overnight so I can’t lose it overnight either.
    Great post!

    Pearl || thepearlylife.wordpress.com

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    1. True that …. so kind of you to have stopped by… Thanks a lot sweets 🙂

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  4. Regyna Tasho bhutia says:

    Amazing lil one❤❤❤❤

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    1. Thank you my biggie


  5. Flo says:

    Ur absolutely gorgeous outward and within…A lil kilo gain won’t ever define the beauty in you…Becca ur amazing

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    1. Awwwww Flo reading ur comment after so long just made my day. Thanks for your kind words. Xoxo


  6. quinncove says:

    Gorgeous dress, that colour is unbelievable on you!! 😍

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      1. quinncove says:

        You’re welcome ❤

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  7. ana says:

    Those who commented about u getting extra kilos never knew ur heart … U have such a beautiful ❤ and Kuch toh log kahenge ..logo ka kaam hai Kehna ….

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    1. I know my girl… so to hell to em .. xoxo


  8. anjage says:

    It is very brave of you to overcome your fears… I actually really like these pictures. Awesome dress, btw 🎈

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    1. Thank you so much…… indeed one neeeds to overcome their fear … xo

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